Loving yourself is hard, but it is necessary to lead a happy and successful life.

If you are struggling with where to start, you should give the ways outlined below a shot.

1. Learn to Say No

Are you feeling overwhelmed? Is your schedule too full? Just say no the next time someone asks you to do something. It is also okay to admit that you are too busy and won't be able to get to something you originally thought you would. Anyone who cares about you will be understanding. 

2. Stop Looking For Mistakes

It is human nature to be looking for mistakes in yourself constantly. But it would be best if you stopped doing this because it will only get in the way of your self-love. If you make a mistake, take responsibility for it, do everything you can to fix it, and move on. Don't dwell on the mistakes you have made in the past—you can't go back no matter how much you wish you could. 

3. Know You Are Special

It is also common for people to spend time comparing themselves to others. It would be best if you remembered that you are truly unique and that no one has had the same life. Next time you find yourself wishing you had all the things your friend has, stop these thoughts in their tracks and remind yourself of all the amazing things you do have in life. 

4. Focus on Your Strengths

Everyone has weaknesses, and you likely know yours. But instead of focusing on these, try to focus on developing your strengths. This means developing the talents to have been given rather than thinking about what you don't have. Of course, you can work to improve your weaknesses but focus on your strengths first. 

5. Take Care Of Your Body

Besides all of the above ways to love yourself mentally, you also need to love yourself physically. This doesn't mean standing in the mirror and looking until you love your body. It means you eat right, exercise regularly, and get enough sleep—all things that your body needs to stay healthy. 

Overall, the journey to loving yourself will not be an easy one. If you can start applying the above practices to your life, you'll find that loving yourself isn't as hard as it may seem. Soon, you will be well on your way to living a happy and more successful life, all thanks to the love you have for yourself.